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Enraged Slith

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  1. So, everyone likes compliments unless there's something that makes them not compliments? Your definition of compliments is tautological. Unfortunately, though, not everyone has the same qualifications of what counts as a compliment, so what may be a compliment to you could just be creepy and rude to someone else. This ties in with the discussion of whether or not the boss that ES is "flirting" with is actually flirting or not. I recommend paying attention to how she interacts with other people, as she may act that way with everyone.

    It's not really a question of whether or not I think she was flirting. We had a good day, I thought she was feeling it, and I would have made a move if it wasn't for other factors. I had to go home with a lot of pent up emotions and absolutely no way to deal with them. You all and others have convinced me that it's better to wait this out and I think that's best. It's gotten much easier to deal with this a few days later so I foresee no further problems unless she provokes them.

  2. I've worked a couple shifts with her. I wouldn't have thought anything if she hadn't said certain things and acted a certain way by the end of the day. I'm just going to wait it out and see what happens, since there's no use in getting worked up over someone who's in a relationship.

  3. i'm not 100% sure he's capable of doing that right now without emotionally exhausting himself, he sounds pretty infatuated with her. i think he could probably use some distance from her so he can be objective about the situation

    She's actually my supervisor so it's going to depend on whether or not she assigns herself to another shift with me. This is the sort of job where you work with just one other person for about a 10 hour window.

  4. And honestly it's still better to secretly long and hope that she breaks up. If she's also really that into you she's probably rethinking her relationship right now, and she's perfectly capable of taking matters into her own hand. If she lets you know soon that's she's now single, that's an invitation you should take. Don't push for it.

    That's what my friends have been telling me and it seems like the best advice. I'm worried that if we get another shift together that I might say or do something I regret.

  5. I'm sorry if this is inappropriate to post here. I respect quite a few posters here and wanted some input on a personal problem.

     

    I've worked with this girl a few times and I think we've really hit it off. She's smart, driven, and beautiful. I've never been so profoundly attracted to someone in my entire life. Problem is that she's dating someone else at work and it might be pretty serious. I don't want to get in between that.

     

    But we drew a shift together recently and I couldn't help myself and wound up flirting with her real heavy all day. She laughed at everything and started hitting me back. Then she made some innuendo about me under her breath and wouldn't tell me what she said while being real coy about it with this big grin plastered on her face. And now I can't think about anything else.

     

    So now I'm stuck with this incredible amount of attraction toward this girl and I think she might reciprocate my feelings and all I want to do is tell her how I feel about her. But I can't do that because I don't want to get into a bunch of drama with her and her boyfriend. So I've got no release. It's tearing me up inside.

     

    :(

  6. Did you change your operating system before it stopped working?

    You get regular updates on Windows, that may be a cause of it.

    Okay, I figured it out. It was an Avast! update that added some features. Turning off "Deep Clean" or whatever it's called fixed the problem.

  7. Do LCGs count? I play a bit of A Game of Thrones with (through) my friends. I'd consider buying in myself, but it's so damn expensive at this point to get all the cards you need.

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